You look back into the time and ask yourself where exactly did you go wrong in your relationship?
Lets not waste our time on negative thoughts like, because i was lacking this and that.
What i want to focus is upon the expectation of the person.
I mean, i dont know for other people but for me, it was expectations.
Expectations like, if there is a fight we could solve it by talking.
We should share our feelings.
We should be vulnerable with each other.
We should be comfortable with each other.
We are human beings, so treating her as women and me as men is just nonsense. We are all same, we have the same blood running within us.
We can just accept ourselves.
If there is love, i can trust her.
She loves me, i trust her, she can wear anything she wants, she can do meet and make friends.
All this shits.
And all this thinking and these attitude gave me hell.
I mean one of a hell.
And what did i learn from this?
Its all bullshit.
Women dont want you to treat her as human, as a partner. She wants to just be with a partner whom she can respect, a strong male partner.
And it dont matter if you are rich, poor, goodlooking, ugly. If you treat women with the attitude I had, you will always be treated like a shit and be always cheated.
Women always say, they sleep with men they love. Other than that they cant. While men on the other hand can sleep with anyone.
But if you look at the world, you will see lot of place where women is selling their body for money.
So is it love? But for whom?
I mean is a women so strong that, she has the ability to love every stranger who gives her money?
What is this dude on? Are you nuts?
Maybe, i am nuts.
But the realization that trying to open up with girl, trying to have a conversation with a girl, trying to treat her as human being is a mistake.
On the contrary, when i didnt think of girls emotions, feelings, it was easy to date.
I was the one who had the upper hand.
So, what i am trying to say is, DONT GIVE YOUR POWER TO OTHER PEOPLE.
AND ESPECIALLY GIRLS.
THEY WILL PLAY WITH YOUR EMOTIONS LIKE A CAT PLAYING WITH BALL, AND THE MOMENT THEY GET BORED, THEY WILL LEAVE YOU.
WOMEN ARE NOT MEN.
MEN ARE NOT WOMEN.
THATS THE TRUTH.
AND YOU CANT TRY TO MAKE THEM 1 OR CATEGORIZE AS THEM.
AND WOMEN DONT WANT TO BE TREATED AS HUMAN BEINGS. THEY WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE A TREASURED CHEST, A DIAMOND OR ANYTHING THAT LOOKS GOOD BUT JUST DOESNT HAS THE CAPABILITY TO FEEL OR LOVE.
TELLING WOMEN LOVE IS THE BIGGEST LIE I EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE.
WOMEN DONT LOVE, THEY CANT LOVE AND WILL NEVER LOVE.
